Posted on September 20, 2017
I'd like to introduce you to my street friend Travis.
I met this man (through my daughter's introduction) twelve months ago on the streets of Melbourne and sit with him most Saturday nights. He was homeless, raising money through begging and sleeping in a local car park. He has since been provided with a home and still comes out weekly to ask for money to cover his costs.
Recently at 2 am on a bone-chilling Melbourne morning, I sat with him on the footpath talking more about his life. The thing that struck me was his gratitude. He is no longer a heroin addict, he has a roof over his head and loves his daughter dearly. He is incredibly grateful for his life and for the smallest amount of money or food that people provide him. He is also a very gentle man; always interested in my world, his face lighting up every time he sees me.
When I asked him about why he chooses to come to the street to beg for money instead of working for it (part of my personal quest to deal with my own judgements around this issue) his response blew me away. The workplace is where he got his earlier heroin addiction from and now that he is clean he is extremely hesitant to go back to that situation again. Travis sees a counsellor on a regular basis, is bettering himself through educational courses and is looking at doing voluntary work to help others live better lives.
Travis has reminded me of two critical things in the time I have known him.
- Gratitude. No matter whether we live in a mansion or a car park, we have much to be grateful for and it's the practice of gratitude that is the key as opposed to what we have or don't have.
- Acceptance. He's reminded me (and as I wrote last week) that everybody is doing the best they can and how easy I judge a book by its cover, or in this case, a homeless person by their situation. The act of acceptance, with or without words, communicates love powerfully.
The name Travis comes from the Old French traverse - meaning to pass through or cross over a bridge/boundary.
My street friend is traversing his own streets, rivers and bridges as best he can and doing so with grace, gratitude and a big heart. A good reminder from the street for our own life traversal.
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